Why can't i stop missing him after the breakup?

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guys I miss him sm and I keep looking at old messages idk what to do he ended it because he thinks I don't talk enough he said he was done wasting time what do I do

Last updated on:2026-04-19T23:48:42+05:30

Comments (8)

tearbuddy
tearbuddy 4 wks ago

do you feel like you didn’t talk enough, or is that just something he said that you’ve started believing now?

userrr
userrr 4 wks ago

I feel like he's right and I don't talk enough but I'm a type of person who cant just talk without being comfortable with you and he keeps leaving n coming back so it gets weird and I just don't know what to talk about with him in general

stillsad
stillsad 4 wks ago

i used to reread our chats every night too, like i could somehow find a version where he didn’t leave. it just kept reopening everything

userrr
userrr 4 wks ago

honestly hurts because he's so different from then and I miss that sm

HappyBud815
HappyBud815 4 wks ago

I understand you,I am in the same situation, what you are feeling is valid . Forgive yourself and focus on yourself if he wants you he will come back to you

DreamyWay697
DreamyWay697 4 wks ago

he doesn't seem kind or considerate. stop reminiscing over your messages, it just prolongs the healing. one foot in front of the other, one day at a time. Just keep living your life and keep yourself distracted from him

userrr
userrr 4 wks ago

but I love him..

DreamyWay697
DreamyWay697 4 wks ago

@hali i understand. And it hurts. But hes actively chosen to live his life without you. It will take time, but you've got to end the loop of looking back. Do you want to heal and live your best life? Or do you constantly want to feel sad and broken by thinking about him and looking back at old messages. Or hold on to hope that he'll come back? because that is literally torture