Moving on when you think you ruined everything

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how do you deal with it when you feel everything was your fault ?

Last updated on:2026-05-12T18:16:12+05:30

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plant820
plant820 yesterday

you genuinely believe it was all your fault, or do you think your brain is trying to make sense of the loss by putting it all on yourself?

OHnoWho
OHnoWho yesterday

i had to start separating “i made mistakes” from “i was the entire problem.” those are two very different things. honestly, writing down what actually happened instead of what my guilt was telling me helped a lot.

nomondem
nomondem 2 days ago

Is it just a feeling or the truth ? Distinguish between the two if it's feeling get rid of it it's just at the back of your head if it's the truth then forgive yourself , it might take time but eventually

CozyVibes815
CozyVibes815 2 days ago

Idk I think it was all my fault too, im the one who wants to breakup with him but now that he moved on. Idk I have a boyfriend now but I know im guilty and still relapsing

LoveLoom755
LoveLoom755 2 days ago

trust me it was all my fault and the guilt eats u up from inside...its been 5 months since all that happend and I still get nightmares. its the worst. no one knows better than me..if u find a way tell me too bro