Did i make the right choice after the betrayal?

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recently found out I was getting cheated on and left. he tried to talk but I was still hurting so I didn't see him. he then sent a message saying I was wrong to look through his phone and that things happen and that he would like to repay me back and that he doesn't wants to be enemies. I refused his proposal called him off on it because I know he didn't mean it. so now im choosing to continue moving forward and focus on myself because I believe if you didn't considered me enough to not hurt me you have no right to consider me after to make yourself look better am I wrong?

Last updated on:2026-05-21T12:59:11+05:30

Comments (5)

curlyhairUNi
curlyhairUNi 4 days ago

he said “things happen,” did it feel like he was actually taking accountability at all or mostly trying to smooth things over?

OHnoWho
OHnoWho 4 days ago

my ex cheated too and then tried to act “civil” right after like we could just skip over the damage. feeling angry that suddenly MY reaction was the problem when he was the one who broke trust first.

DreamyWay697
DreamyWay697 4 days ago

im proud of you for maintaining your boundaries and standing up for yourself. He hurt and betrayed you. You do not owe him anything. His behaviour is disgusting honestly. Keep moving forward. you got this

tahera087142
tahera087142 4 days ago

thank you 🫂❤️

SweetNinja924
SweetNinja924 4 days ago

if he cheated once he'll cheat again, because he knows you will hang around no matter what he does. cheating is the worst thing a man can do. nothing else will ever come close to the pain, the worry. the lost of trust that comes with betrayal. believe me. But if you don't mind being second hand take him back, but be ready for the next heartbreak. As far as the phone thing he's just mad because he got caught.He is trying to make you feel bad by saying BS about it.