I broke up today. We were 2 different people. I have anxiety while my partner has distant syndrome or whatever. she likes to distant herself. she have never said I love you bur she always said that she do not love me. I just wanted to make one of the guy friend of her to be less important and I know I was super jealous. however, in an instant, I become nobody from bf. while he is still her friend. and it was this easy the whole time. maybe my jealousy did not favored by her. I am trying to not chase after it. I want us to break up. so she goes to someone who will make her happy more than me. is it the correct decision? I am confused because it is my first time. she was my every first time and I guess I need more time to heal.
Last updated on:2026-05-25T01:42:03+05:30
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when you say she never said “i love you” and even told you she didn’t love you, do you think a part of you was hoping she’d eventually change if you proved yourself enough?
yes I did
my first relationship was like that too, i kept trying harder and harder while she kept pulling away. when someone can go from partner to distant that fast
Believe ur gut feeling.if it doesnot feel right , then breakup and move on.Prioritise urself.Mostly, u can communicate ur feelings to her and then decide