hi guys we met in our first year of college and fell deeply in love. now we’re in final year and she’s happy with someone else
we were together for 4 years and everything shattered 3 months ago when i found out she was talking to multiple guys late at night for hours and hiding it from me. the worst part is this was already the 4th chance i gave her. yeah i know i was crazy in love with her.
now she seems happy with a whole new crowd and people keep telling me she’s probably dating some junior now or something. honestly i don’t even know what’s true anymore 🤗
it’s been 3 months and i still can’t handle it. i’m exhausted. i feel so alone all the time. it hurts seeing how easily she moved on while i’m here barely holding myself together. i can’t do what she did i can’t just text random people and act normal after everything.
sometimes the only reason i keep going is because i think about my mom. that’s literally where my strength comes from right now. but man this pain is too much sometimes
and before anyone says go hang out with friends or keep yourself busy i tried. none of it works. i’m breaking down in the middle of crowds and every time i see her at college i feel myself falling apart again.
i’m tired man. i’m really tired.
Last updated on:2026-05-27T01:00:58+05:30
Comments (6)
If someone can go to sleep at night fine knowing you're not okay and on bad terms with you, then they 110% don't give a shit about you.
4 chances !! U should have left this relationship when it happened for first time.Imagine giving her a 5th chance and she will end up doing the same things she did to u.Do u still want to re-do all things .?
i stayed with someone through lie after lie too because i loved her SO much i kept thinking the next chance would finally change things.
when you see her at college, do you feel more hurt by missing HER or by missing the life and future you thought you two were gonna have together?
time is the only thing that truly heals. someone like her will never be happy if thats how she treats her partners in relationships. all you can do rn is give yourself time and force yourself to be around loved ones or do things you used to enjoy, i know it feels like its not doing anything, it doesn’t feel like its helping me now through my current breakup, but i done it everyday after my last ex (who i thought id never move on from), and i promise one day youll realise you havent even thought of the breakup in days. goodluck, reach out to me if you ever need someone to talk to !
the pain you're feeling is going to linger until you tell yourself that you deserve better. It all starts with you and personally, thats what I've been doing. My recent breakup I planned on seeing him over the Holidays and he called it off and blocked me