3 weeks ago he left after 11 years today, this year was supposed to be a house and baby for us and now I’m left with the biggest hole in my heart while he just gets on with life..
Last updated on:2026-06-07T06:27:11+05:30
How do you move on after 11 years together?
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i lost a relationship that carried all my future plans too, and honestly the grief wasn't just for the person, it was for the house, the family, the routines, all the things i thought were already on their way.
three weeks is so fresh after 11 years, and me was accepting that i was grieving a future as much as a person. i kept comparing my pain to how "fine" my ex looked, and it only made the wound deeper.
he really is getting on with life, or is that just the only part of his story you're able to see right now
he told me I wasted an hour of his life last week showin up to talk to him and then told me he had just been trying to push it to the back of his mind for the last 2 week so yeah idk
I know it's not easy ❤️🫂 so sorry
it’s absolutely terrible, wouldn’t wish the pain on anyone 😭💔