Why do i feel like i'm everything and nothing?

did they actually make you feel like you were too much and not enough, or did you slowly start believing it because of how inconsistent they were with you?

Aniesha 4 days ago

a little bit of both but mostly because he told me you're too good for me then another time he be like I'm not understanding enough or I'm not doing this properly, it became a pattern.

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i was measuring my worth through someone who kept sending mixed signals, and that left me feeling impossible to satisfy no matter what i did.

i've loved someone who took up so much space in my head that i started questioning whether i was too much for her and somehow still not enough at the same time.

ur not alone. I've felt the same, I out in so much effort for her and she only ever did the bare minimum. then when I'd be going through something so I can't show her the amount of love I normally do she lashes out and says she dosent deserve to be treated this way when she's treated me horribly the whole time. I thought that maybe I was too much and I should start acting like her, but whenever I did shed tell me I'm not treating her right and she can't live like this anymore. you give urself ur own worth. if you feel like you are too much to ur person. talk to them. if they think u are too much. they arnt for you

Aniesha 5 days ago

thankfully someone understands, it's a nasty feeling.

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