How do you move on from an on-and-off relationship?

how do I let her go if we were off and on since middle school ?

Last updated on:2026-06-14T03:14:20+05:30

Comments (8)

ItsNotEasy
ItsNotEasy a mth ago

I had a 3 yr i just got out of and honestly yea its not that easy to get out of a longer relationship. its really hard but you can do it if you focus on yourself. but definitely id try to talk to her.. it really depends on how you ended.

sparkback0
sparkback0 a mth ago

try to talk to her to fix and let go that needs to be let go, yo shouldn't hold on to somethinf that is literally gone a long time ago

voiletflow
voiletflow a mth ago

gah, that's a long time to have someone woven into your life.

nomondem
nomondem a mth ago

It won't be easy...

Dreamer02
Dreamer02 a mth ago

when you think about her now, do you miss who she is today, or do you miss the version of the two of you that existed back in those middle school years?

matchalova
matchalova a mth ago

i had an on-and-off thing from my teens into my twenties, and letting go felt like losing a piece of my history, not just a person.

goldenarleen
goldenarleen a mth ago

cut contact, if it helps I found hope in religion. if she actually wanted you and loved you she’d go for it but she didn’t. block her and avoid the urges and over time it’ll get better

Unhealed
Unhealed a mth ago

Agreed!