Why no contact really matters after a breakup

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I'm sorry y'all are gonna be like "bro how" but I just understood that no contact and needing space was THAT serious to him. we had a lil talk cuz I keep pushing and I'm not proud. He said "I feel like you don't have enough trust" cuz yeah I kept texting to get answers to my questions. But he said "I tell you something and instead of believing me you keep on texting trying to make something happen that wasn't even in discussion" I don't know exactly what this is about (I have an idea but yk) I just have a fear of abandonment ig.... But everything will be alright ❤️

Last updated on:2026-06-16T17:14:33+05:30

Comments (7)

nomad01
nomad01 a mth ago

when he says you don't trust him, do you think it's about trusting HIM, or is it more that your fear of abandonment makes it hard to trust the situation when you don't have all the answers?

Inotnoya
Inotnoya a mth ago

tbh only fear of abandonment cuz yeah I trust him more than anyone

bluewater
bluewater a mth ago

i was that person too. i kept texting after the breakup because i thought if i just explained myself better i'd feel safer, but really i was chasing certainty that wasn't there.

Inotnoya
Inotnoya a mth ago

Exactly. But its okay now we know ig

ItsNotEasy
ItsNotEasy a mth ago

no contact is the correct answer. stay strong dont think you are the only one to give in to contacting an ex. i did and it made me crash 1000 times harder.

Inotnoya
Inotnoya a mth ago

yeah I hope everything will be normal soon

Inotnoya
Inotnoya a mth ago

NO CONTACT STARTS NOW 😝