It all happened when i started to chase him... well, i was super attached to him and he used this to his benefits. He used to make mistakes and get mad at me how i get angry over them, and with that fear of losing him, i used to try to fix, he used to reject me and block me, he even used to hurt me by words, i showed him that i love him and that i can't live without him. After realizing that i am chasing i wanted to break up, and all he said was:"okay, it's as u want, it's not my fault anyways". The bad part of the story is that i kept chasing and begging for him to come back with me, and as always, the same result "REJECTION" i hated myself so much after all that and i decided to protect my dignity and not to text him again. After a week, he texted me, but i was actually unattached. I don't even know how it happened and i lost feelings that fast but it just happened, the fact that he came back made him seem orthless in my eyes and i finally understood how he used to see me when i was begging him not to take breakes from our realtionship. i was back with him, but actually losing feelings more, i stopped chasing, i started to be the toxic one in this relationship, not really toxic but i just thought about taking my revenge from him. he started to fix things after every fight, but i used to forgive him, at some point i became the one who wants to break up every time he does something bad, the one who takes breakes, i just feel much better now, idk if this is fair but i really needed it...
Last updated on:2026-06-24T20:52:48+05:30
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i spent so long chasing someone who kept leaving that when he finally came back, something in me had already switched off. the person i was begging for suddenly didn't seem so special anymore.
exactlyy, that how they already see us when we beg them, we literally seem so worthless in their eyes and they take us for granted, when u stop chasing him and he finally comes back u already start losing feelings for him.
i didn't actually need revenge, i just needed to stop handing over all the power. once i stopped chasing, i could finally see the relationship for what it was
that's good actually, u made the right decision
you feel better because he's treating you differently now, or because you finally proved to yourself that you can survive without him?
I feel better because i lost feelings for him, i'm with him now just to make him feel the same feelings he made me feel when i was chasing him, this doesn't mean that i don't feel guilty, but he deserved it, cuz he didn't take care of me when i used to give him so much love