i'm feeling pretty lost right now and honestly just need to vent.
my ex-girlfriend and i broke up at the end of march. we were only together for four months but it was serious. we had already talked about spending our lives together. i bought a ring and she had even put a deposit down on a wedding venue.
then everything fell apart when she cheated on me with her child's father. he was the one person i always felt insecure about and in the end my fears turned out to be real.
after the breakup i tried everything to keep us together. i wanted to work through it suggested things i never thought i'd agree to and even begged. i'm not proud of that but i was desperate not to lose her. eventually she blocked me on everything.
last week hurt and angry i did something petty and signed her up for spam calls. she ended up unblocking me just to tell me off and honestly i think i crossed a line.
the truth is i'm still hurting. i miss her more than i want to admit. i've tried talking to other people but it only reminds me how much i wish things had worked out with her. i'm trying to focus on myself now but keeping her off my mind feels impossible some days.
a part of me still wonders if she misses me too. when she unblocked me to message me i caught myself looking for signs that she still cared. deep down i know i'm probably reading into something that isn't there but when you miss someone this much it's hard not to.
Last updated on:2026-06-19T22:26:40+05:30
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sounds like she was trying to use u rather than love u ngl
it’s been 2 days since he told me he cheated on me and what hurts the most is that when I was begging him to stop communicating with her he didn’t but it comes easy to do it to me when she asked . why does it hurt so much to know that what you’ve been begging someone for he can do it to someone else so naturally? .. it all started when this female came into his life ( work ) and he started to behave differently and I ask countless times if he likes her and he said no .. if he just told me earlier i wouldn’t be hurting rn . sigh
why we keep allow the wrong persons in ?
also I tried to remind myself that part of healing is that we need to accept that they will never apologize and change for u because you aren’t the one for them .
i begged too after being cheated on, and looking back i can see how much i was trying to save the future i thought we were going to have, not the person who had already chosen someone else.
i was gonna text him to try and save us but I won’t.. once the person don’t see the error in what they did and try to change it to save the relationship there’s no coming back .. just have to let go
keep your head up, keep moving forward, and know you're not alone friend ❤️
Ty
Sorry, she's not coming back... if she already has history with "baby dad" then she might have continued it for the sake of her child. Engagement after 4 months probably scared her off, but responding by putting her database was a little too far. Don't read into any messages sent at this stage.
first of all, she cheated on you. that should say everything you need to hear. she does not care about you or want you and i know it’s hard but you have to move on. if you need some one to vent to or anything, I’m always here to help