Day 1 of him not fighting to keep us, I been talking about breaking up everyday and he finally accepted it just now but for some reason I feel so down about it. I haven’t been happy and he’s done a lot that hurt me, it ended up changing me. We both agreed co parenting today but somehow I feel like a failure. I failed myself, my love, him, my kids, our family. It sunk in now. I have nobody but him. Who can I turn to, when he was the person I turned to during days like this. Don’t get me wrong, based off the things in the relationship co parenting is best but I’m losing out on the family I dreamed of
Last updated on:2026-06-24T10:31:11+05:30
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are you mourning the family life you thought the two of you would have together?
I feel you so much. it took me years to accept my break up with my children’s father. we were together for 17.5 years and he was all I knew. I had to mourn the loss of my family as a whole. then my children had to mourn as well. it was the hardest thing to do and drove me to jumping into a relationship with the first man who love bombed me, post divorce. now I’m grieving my marriage and also the man who I thought loved me afterwards. both love stories were fantasies I created in my head. the more time I spend alone, the more I realize no one ever loved me proper. now starts the work of loving myself