today is day 14 of no contact and i feel so good. but i still wonder, how do you finally let go when you were the only one loyal? and why does an ex keep blocking and unblocking you even when you’ve kept them blocked for your own peace? nothing is stopping me now though 🕊️
Last updated on:2026-06-30T22:57:12+05:30
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when they block and unblock you now, do you usually find out by accident or are they still trying to pull you back into contact?
i am at day 5/6 it is getting easier (she blocked me after i confronted her with something) she did unblock me on whatsapp in the night, but blocked me in almost every other thing. at the moment i am starting to replace good memories of us with bad thing she is doing now so i hope it helps me to forget that pathetic humanbeing.
i hope it gets easier.
and secretly i hope she is going to reach out to mee and give me the opportunity to treat her like she doesn’t exist in my world anymore
this made me smile. honestly, i stopped trying to figure out why my ex kept blocking and unblocking me because every answer i came up with kept me emotionally tied to them. protecting my peace worked better than chasing an explanation.
hitting two weeks of no contact and finally feeling like i could breathe again. i was the one who stayed loyal too, and letting go took time because i was grieving the future i thought we'd have, not just the person.
i’m also on day 14 today. i technically broke it because i called to see if i was blocked and i was so he doesn’t even know i tried. my ex also keeps blocking and unblocking me. i’m struggling to let go too even though he did so many things to hurt me
congratulations to you both. I've broken no contact 8 times in two weeks. The urge is overwhelming, but I'm about to hit day 3 of actual no contact. its hard because I keep reflecting on areas I could have done better in the lead up to us breaking up. I find myself wanting to clear the air. I know its probably just an excuse to reach out.14 days feels like a lifetime away. I need to do this.
I am day 14 aswell its not been easy - up and down days. She sent me a a how are you txt and saying she has news - dont know what to do with it it keeps playing on my mind. But I dont want to break no contact and hand the power to her. I guess I still want her back but not with all tge narcistic games. so holding strong for now