Tuesday, I joined the game we always play and my ex and 2 of my friends were there. He said he didn't want to talk to me. I didn't really feel good about it but I convinced myself he was going to change his mind before the end of the week. (Spoiler alert: he did) Yesterday I reached out to him because its been 17 days. I said I was ready to communicate when he was. He answered saying we could play together now, that he didn't mind us communicating and he said he hopes things can "go back to normal without any problem" to which he added, "so we can play and communicate as friends" it's a good start but I'm not over him and I know we'll get back together. He won't just be my friend.
Last updated on:2026-07-04T19:38:35+05:30
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I was like this but I’m in a different situation because we didn’t play games together, i stopped reaching out and stopped putting my energy into my ex. I have met someone else and I’m really happy, when I think about it if my ex and me got back together I think because of what he did I’d be too much on guard to worried about a lot of things, it changed who I saw him and I don’t think that would ever change
yeah but I really want him and only him lol
@Inotnoya I was the same until I wasn’t, I was like I only want to be with him. now i wouldn’t take him back because if someone who says they love me wants to hurt me like that. That is not love. I have found such a strong connection with someone else and spending time with him and then looking back at my past relationship. i realised that what healthy is
holding onto every small sign because i was sure it meant we'd find our way back. sometimes talking again felt amazing, but it also kept my hope alive way longer than my heart needed
i get why this feels like a win. i just tried to remind myself that friendly contact isn't always the same as rebuilding a relationship, and waiting for actions instead of filling in the blanks saved me a lot of extra hurt.
yup! and I just feel like we're gonna get back together. Feelings change but judging by the way he's acting rn, saying its still odd to talk to me proves that he's not over me ☝️
what makes you feel so sure you'll get back together? has he actually talked about trying again, or is it more what your heart is hoping for right now?
Cuz thats how it is 😞 he said the opposite but he keeps saying something and changing his mind so like...
people told me not to hope too much in case it didn't work out. But what if it does? and I know it will because I know he's the one for me. I'm still waiting for his attention and I can guarantee you people, he will change his mind. He apparently told my friend it was over forever but hey EVERYTHING he said just ended up changing. I have high hopes but don't worry everyone I'm keeping the possibility to block all of them and disappear if my mental health is in danger.