hello everyone I am new on here trying to deal with my pain but me and my husband has been together for 9 years in 2024 he decided to cheat on me in my home while I work doubles from 3pm to 11pm 11pm to 7am she was living with us she was suppose to have been a friend of ours. I found out and it crushed me. I was numb I was hurt I hated him so I told him we are room mates until he figured where to go. he moved in with another female we broke up for 2 months. one day he called me wanting me to meet up with him so I did we got back together told him under one condition his phone has to be unlocked.so we got back together but something was off he still had his phone locked he kept it close to him under the bed or wherever he go he had it. so I didn't trust him i started going in his phone while he sleep and I would see little flirty things like eye emoji or heart emoji or fire. I asked him to stop he kept ignoring me. he would tell me fuck my feelings. so Monday I went through it and found him talking to a female asking for sex he wanted to meet up with her he said so we can't do nothing like we use to. please help me I am hurting everytime I look at him I think about evil things to do to him that I should not think about but I am hurting so much he won't leave my house to let me breathe he said I will have to evict him because we brought the house together. I am losing my mind being in the same room with him it's like he trying to drive me crazy
Last updated on:2026-07-06T22:36:34+05:30
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This is about some issue with his own mother. Bet. My ex was like this and his mother was a pro. No excuses though, don't put up with this nonsense. he's doing you dirty and no one deserves that. For real though, don't do anything that would cost you the rest of your life, don't give him the power to take that away from you.
thank you
i couldn't make someone care about my feelings if they kept choosing not to.
do you have anyone nearby you can stay with for a few days, or someone you trust enough to lean on while you're stuck sharing the house with him?
not really I am kind of a loner I dont hang out much I work alot so I dont get to meet new people
i stayed with someone after he cheated too, and living under the same roof while my heart was shattered was the hardest part. seeing him every day kept reopening the wound.
yes it hurts and for him to turn around and do it again its even worst everytime I look at him I want to hate him
every since I found out he cheating he wants to touch and feel on me and tell me I am his and etc... I hateeeee him I can't even stand to be around him I dont have family here or friends we moved to another state
I am so so sorry you are going through this! do you have anyone you could temporarily stay with? I would do that while you go through the process of eviction and getting him out
no we moved to Pennsylvania we are both from Louisiana but we have no family up here