As much as I’ve healed and feeling like I can overcome everything in my path, I still felt something today. I made a new ig account due to wanting to start content creation and business brand for scholarships. I got curious to see if I would still be blocked by my ex so I checked. Lo and behold I still was but I checked my facebook and found that I wasn’t. I saw her face on facebook and I had a feeling in my heart I can’t recognize. I no longer feel anger or sadness but this bittersweet peace. I think it still hurts to know we will never be what we were again but I’m also happy for the opportunity to move on with my life. I do miss her in the sense of her being in my life but not so much my girlfriend anymore. I have accepted that she doesn’t love me and want anything to do with me hence why she is in another dude’s arms. I’m fine with that because I won’t let one person ruin my heart and I will continue to hold on to the faith that there are good women and a woman who is searching for a man like me in her life.
Last updated on:2026-07-19T21:03:11+05:30
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the first time i saw my ex again online after months, i expected to fall apart but all i felt was this quiet ache.
do you think seeing her face gave you closure, or did it just show you how much you've changed since the breakup
beautiful post sounds like your healing path is moving pretty well im so happy for you 💓 thank you for sharing this gives me hope
I love that you are looking at moving on as a happy opportunity. Once you pass the hurt and anger, the future starts to become exciting. I can't wait to get to that point. Thankyou for sharing.
You probably just got triggered subconsciously by going on social media. Sounds like you're really healing recognizing a sense of peace in you. And cheers for you sticking up for your heart! We only get one in this life