I'm Facebook friends and have met her sister. I want to send a message to her sister and ask how he is. I wanna ask her if my ex is okay and how he's been from her perspective. I dont want my ex to reach that Im asking about him and I think if I ask his sister it will get back to him. Im just genuinely concerned and want to know if he's also grieving me. grieving us. I miss him so much. God im so weak.
Last updated on:2026-07-23T12:54:11+05:30
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has he given you any sign that he wants contact again, or are you carrying all the hope by yourself right now
i wanting to ask my ex’s friends if he was okay because i missed him so badly and needed proof that i still mattered to him. that urge was so heavy, i know that ache
I wouldn't as it may seem as if your not respecting their boundaries. if it happens that you run into them like say in a coffee shop or on you own time sure, but going by or checking on ,might be taken as you're checking up or keeping tabs on your ex , so it may be best to stay away for now.
as someone who fought the urge to reach out to his family, DO NOT DO IT. looking back i am so eternally grateful i didnt. he never came back to me but the only way for someone to grieve you is for them to experience like WITHOUT YOU. sending love
will knowing if he is ok make it worse for you? do you feel like you reaching out is coming from a place that will heal or hurt you? you think maybe your body is in survival mode trying to grasp to anythingnor anyone just so you have some kind of tie to him?