Why am i missing my ex and the new guys?

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My past relationship ends 1 year ago and 3 months ago, i talked to other guys, we’ve been talked like 3 months and we stopped talking 2 weeks ago. My heart hurts both sides, like missing the ex and don’t know what’s happened with this guys, how could i miss both of them? is there any name for this emotion? Or for the whole time, i just haven’t got over my ex yet, but still talking to other guys for rebound, but i also have feeling and missed this guy when we didn’t meet too

Last updated on:2026-07-29T20:59:11+05:30

Comments (3)

BigBird
BigBird a mth ago

i get why your heart feels pulled in both directions. what helped me was letting myself miss them without trying to figure out who i missed more. once i stopped forcing an answer, things got a little clearer.

JRAWest
JRAWest a mth ago

that's such a confusing place to be. do you think you miss this new guy for who he is, or because he filled the empty space your ex left?

ojiankido
ojiankido a mth ago

talking to someone new before i was really over my ex, and when it ended i felt like i lost two people at once. it made me realize the old heartbreak was still living inside me