I’ve been in no contact for 51 days the last few have been harder than ever. but I didn’t reach out. cause I love her and if she doesn’t want me I’m not gonna try and disrupt that. I got a text from her tonight it just said “hey” I had missed her so much but when it happens you’re like I didn’t know it would be today. I’m a very anxious person. I got that text and I was just shocked. we talked a little and ofc I did my little anxiety throwing up like I do. it’s happened like 4 or 5 times and idk if I’m done. but idk. I don’t think she loves me anymore but idk then I’d think there’s no way she’d text me if she was talking to someone. anyway it’s only a matter of time before she disappeares again. I’ll just think of the rabbit with the pocket watch until then. have a good day.
Last updated on:2026-08-26T22:50:30+05:30
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I'm glad you resisted the low-effort breadcrumb, and trusted your intuition. For me the key to my healing journey has been blocking and no contact. This app has helped me so much to break the cycle I was in with my toxic, breadcrumbing ex, who I now realize was texting me the whole time theyvwere talking to others. Sending you good thoughts for strength and healing. ❤️🩹🌿 You and your feelings matter :) You've got this.
I hate to break it to you I didn’t resist shit I folded almost immediately there’s a reason my username is what it is.
@toofargone It's okay, I've been there too. ❤️🩹🙏🫂
that one text can wake up a whole relationship in your head, even when you have no idea what it means to them. i’d try not to build a whole future around one “hey,” as hard as that is.
i feel like you’re already expecting her to disappear again, and that fear is sitting right beside the hope. when you two talked, did she actually say why she reached out?
I asked her what encouraged her to reach out she said “idk” she said hey again tonight and I said hey back but she hasn’t responded. I am expecting her to disappear I wish she wouldn’t but I feel like I’m being realistic.
getting that one tiny “hey” from my ex after weeks of silence and suddenly every feeling i thought i'd buried came rushing back. i was so happy and terrified at the same time.