After a month of staying in touch as friends, I have decided to go no contact.

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We broke up exactly a month ago. We both didn't have it in us to cut each other off so we decided to stay in touch as friends. But it backfired. we would have angry outbursts and start fighting and end up hurting more. Today, we had a gut wrenching fight. She asked me to let her go. Never felt pain of this kind before. But I know this is it. I've blocked her from everywhere, and I've promised myself to never reach out. idk how I'm going to survive this..but I'll try

Last updated on:2025-09-01T01:24:02+05:30

Comments (3)

Chocoman
Chocoman 8 mths ago

reads like the fight forced the choice you couldn’t make before. i’ve seen that happen, where the final push comes from anger not calm. it feels final but also unbearable at the same time.

queen0001
queen0001 8 mths ago

my breakup ended the same way, we tried to stay friends and it only hurt more. when i finally blocked him it felt brutal, but also like the only way to breathe.

archu
archu 8 mths ago

blocking him after a blow up too. i sat there shaking, staring at the blank chat list like i’d just ripped my own skin off. i kept wanting to undo it but also knew i couldn’t.