She re added me to tell me shes proud I did what she couldnt and then tells me she wants to be just friends and it hurts. She is doing what my other ex did and wants everything the same BUT doesnt want the dating label which is important to me in a relationship if she loves me. I will most likely cut all contact to help myself. I cant sleep and my heart is beating too fast.
Last updated on:2026-04-15T01:10:05+05:30
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you feel like being “just friends” with her would actually give you peace, or keep you tied to her hoping it changes?
i know it hurts, but for me the only thing that worked was cutting contact for real.
i had an ex who kept me close like that, same energy, same connection, just without the label, and it messed with my head so bad. i couldn’t heal because a part of me kept hoping it would turn back into something real
You need to cut her out of your life in order to heal. You cant be friends....yet. See healing as a detox, she was the drug and you need to be freed from feeling this way. Its not fair to recieve all the benefits of a relationship but void themselves of the responsibilities. Be kind to yourself and take each day as it comes