How ?

you’re still carrying feelings while also knowing he’s done. i did the same, my head knew one thing, my heart kept doing the opposite.

holding on even when he was already gone. my chest hurt like i couldn’t breathe. love didn’t just shut off for me either.

i begged him to want me back and he didn’t. i hated how i still loved someone who already threw me away. it felt pathetic.

remind yourself that you don’t need anyone who doesn’t want you. someone else will want you and it will feel right.

Same... He broke up with me 2 weeks ago but we couldn't leave each other alone. He kept contacting me. Sometimes he was sweet, sometimes he was blaming me. We were stuck and I sent him a long message this morning... I poured my heart out and told him that I can't continue like this. I am really trying to let go now... But also have hope for another chance in the future. Once we both have grown. I am trying to tell myself that feelings can always change. But it's not within my control and I really try to focus on the things that are within my control. But I am struggling.

Going through the same but remaining hopeful