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i think that’s your sign to stay quiet, do you and let him do him bcuz when you do you trussss me it’s gonna hurt him just do what you want and if he try’s to address the issue make him feel like he’s making it a problem and j say “now yk how it feels”.

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you are being gaslighting by him. I know how you feel. My boyfriend did this all the time and wanted me to go to a psycologist for my reaction of his behaviour. Its crazy, they know exactly how to manipulate. Be careful! Write everything he does that makes you feel sad or what your instinct tills you. Listen to your instinct, it tills you when you feel something is off or strange, trust me!! it tills you the signs when he is lying or makes you feel bad. 💐

yepp, always gets mad and says im being annoying. no matter what i say or how i say it, he will pick out something he doesnt like, completely ignore the rest and just make me feel like shit. feels like i can never make him happy and talking to him about it is like pulling teeth.

you noticed how your concerns turned into arguments because he brushed them off. i remember that same cycle, where talking felt pointless.

i cared enough to speak up but he never wanted to hear it. it left me feeling like my feelings didn’t count.

It can be really frustrating when you express your concerns or feelings, and the other person dismisses them or makes you feel like you're the one creating the problem. It's like your emotions and experiences are being invalidated.

You have every right to feel upset or bothered by his actions, and it's okay to express those feelings. Try to communicate your concerns in a calm and specific way, focusing on how his actions affected you. If he continues to dismiss your feelings or shift the blame, it might be helpful to reevaluate the dynamics of your relationship.

i used to get so pissed at that. i’d bring up something that hurt me and he’d roll his eyes like i was dramatic. made me feel small and crazy.