Finally letting go of my ex. We broke up Nov 2024 but stayed in contact. Tonight, I had the courage to set boundaries and end everything. I did not accept the friendship that he offered.
Last updated on:2025-09-10T21:07:02+05:30
Finally letting go of my ex. We broke up Nov 2024 but stayed in contact. Tonight, I had the courage to set boundaries and end everything. I did not accept the friendship that he offered.
Last updated on:2025-09-10T21:07:02+05:30
Comments (5)
reading this reminds me of when i finally drew that line. it wasn’t about friendship or not, it was about you choosing what role he no longer gets in your life.
congratulations sis. its the 'only' proper way for u to move forward. just like i cut her off, im glad u did to him too.
i did the same. saying no to the friendship hurt, but it also felt like i was protecting myself for once. i’m glad you chose what felt safe for you.
i remember when mine dangled that fake friendship like a prize. it felt insulting. like after wrecking me he thought i’d just be his buddy. i shut it down hard, felt angry more than sad.
in my case, he wanted to stay contact and kept on insisting that if i felt sad or like need someone to talk to, he’s always available. dang man, you’re the cause of my sadness.