I don't understand her, first she wants us to break up and then when I don't care anymore, she suddenly likes my Instagram story and sends snaps, only when I'm the one who stopped fighting for it, can someone explain what she wants?
Last updated on:2025-10-13T20:15:25+05:30
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If you had one son that was going through that situation what would you advice him? Do you believe that your son deserves that type of treatment? When one person is strong and confident with themselves they can differentiate what is good and bad for them. What behaviours they accept and what is unacceptable. Look at yourself, analyse the patterns. You have the freedom to choose. You can stop that behaviour for good, blocking, or you can leave space for it to happen again. Either path will involve suffering. But the outcomes are different.
when she snaps or reacts, is it just casual or does it feel like she’s trying to start something again? curious about the pattern.
she texted me yesterday that this break up Hurts her so much
she’s acting on impulse. best thing i learned—don’t chase mixed signals. focus on your peace, not figuring her out.
my ex would act cold and distant, then suddenly show up in my dms like nothing happened. it messes with your head
she misses your attention.
Well, she came back because you didn't care anymore. That's not love, that's the need to be chased... And the same cycle will repeat once you give her what she wants...