Did i deserve this?

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We tried something in the summer, but it fell apart because he was suffering from his ex-girlfriend. He came back after a month with the story that he got over it and now wants to try with me, after that we tried something for a month and a half. He told me when we met that he wanted something with me, and when I came home I received a message that he didn't want anything after all, that I wasn't worthy of love, that he knew he didn't make a mistake the first time he left.

Last updated on:2025-10-23T03:02:08+05:30

Comments (6)

Neverhurt
Neverhurt 6 mths ago

do you think he ever truly healed from his last relationship before trying again with you? sometimes their unresolved stuff spills all over us.

msvlpq
msvlpq 6 mths ago

it's been nine months since his breakup, I kind of hoped that he'd solved some things on his own, but he didn't. I don't know why he hurt me when he knew he couldn't stand it and couldn't be with me

Kaimkarm
Kaimkarm 6 mths ago

when someone says things that cruel, it’s never really about your worth. it’s about their damage. try not to let his confusion define how you see yourself, even if it still stings

msvlpq
msvlpq 6 mths ago

but those words are etched deep in your memory, you can't just forget them or let them go

fearlessG
fearlessG 6 mths ago

i went through something similar — he said he was ready, made me believe it, then pulled away again when things got real. that kind of rejection just wrecks your self-worth for a while 💔

msvlpq
msvlpq 6 mths ago

literally, those words do a lot of damage to your self-confidence