we broke up 2-3 months ago, but we remained friends for a while. up until a couple of weeks ago, she was telling me she missed me. When I told her I hooked up with someone else, she had a breakdown and started crying. but now she has soft launched her new relationship on Instagram. how does that happen? but I'm at a place where it doesn't affect me anymore, I'm taking my time to heal. And I don't miss her anymore. We stopped being friends and it's been 2 weeks of no contact. I don't even feel the urge to reach out to her anymore.
Last updated on:2025-10-31T03:36:03+05:30
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when she said she missed you… did you believe her? or did part of you already know she was halfway out?
that switch-up is brutal, but you’re already doing the right thing. distance is where clarity starts to show up. just stay in that lane no checking her stories, no reopening the chat just to talk. healing looks good on you, even if it feels slow.
my ex did something similar said he missed me, cried when i moved on, then posted someone new like nothing happened. it’s confusing as hell. i think sometimes people want to keep the comfort while exploring new attention. it’s messy, but it sounds like you’re handling it way better than i did back then.
who is the dumper?
she or you broke up?
we hear you, you're doing great ❤️