About 2 weeks ago she called me in tears and said in a sobbing voice that I was everything to her, after a week she started posting some aggressive posts about me like "you'll miss me someday" I'm glad I'm sorry I cut myself off" and something about some other guys, I want to ask you what she means because it's all so contradictory that I don't have the strength to cry about it anymore
Last updated on:2025-12-09T03:49:56+05:30
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before she called you crying, were things already rocky or was that out of nowhere for you? i’m wondering what the emotional build up was on her side.
2 days before she sent me something on Messenger but one second after that, she deleted this, and she told me that she only she was browsing the chat
my ex did that same whiplash thing where one week he was crying on the phone saying i was “his person,” and the next he was posting petty stuff like he was already over me. it messed with my head so bad. it wasn’t about me at all, it was about his own chaos. your girl sounds like she’s spiraling through every emotion and throwing it online because it’s easier than sitting with the grief. none of it means you deserved it.
agree with you, I experienced serious emotional trauma because of these posts and I don't know if I can forgive her for that, I feel like I'm burning out
How did you react when she called you?
Warmth, I couldn't help it when I saw her crying
looks like she is unstable. maybe she wanted you to react in a different way when she said you were everything to her. and then she got angry.