so my ex broke up with me 3 weeks ago, i was already over him 2 months ago (before we even broke up) these past 3 weeks i habe been getting over the repeating pain and so on. this guy added me on snap a couple days ago and i added him back cuz why not, im not looking for anything and i dont have any plans for getting into a relationship whatsoever. Is it wrong of me? my ex broke up with me cuz he didnt love me the way i loved him and he had some issues he needed to figure out. Im basically getting over the loss of him cuz i loved him but at the same time he messed some shit up for me so i cant take him back. but how soon is too soon for me to be seeing other people? Im i moving to fast even tho i dont want a relationship right now
Last updated on:2025-12-24T23:45:12+05:30
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just curious—when you add him back, is it purely casual, or are old feelings creeping up? understanding that might help you know your pace better
i got no feelings whatsover, i kinda feel guilty, but i recently found out that he is seeing other girls...
sounds like you’re being mindful and honest with yourself. as long as you’re not rushing into feelings, exploring connections casually is totally fine. healing isn’t linear
after my breakup i kept thinking “am i moving too fast?” honestly, just following your gut works. i wasn’t ready but talking to new people helped me feel normal again
I'm looking for serious relationship