I now know that after 3 weeks he is trying to get with another girl, I kinda set that up knowing my friend has no intentions and no feelings for him, and he dosent even know her. She is laughing at this with me, i know i might ne cruel to play him like that but honestly he played me even worse. I feel kinda great and laughing at this being thankful for dodeing a bullet. This was my final straw knowing that he is already over me and onto the next one. I am finally able to slowly let go and block him on various platforms, not looking back. Im i curel for this?
Last updated on:2025-12-29T19:30:37+05:30
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you feel this urge to set him up as a way to finally reclaim your power, or was it more spontaneous?
It was spontantios, i wasnt trying to do anything i was just wondering how he was doing and I know now he is doing well i think. anyways i was not trying to reclaim any power whatsover. but this, knowing that he moved on this fast with another girl. weirdly helped me get over him cuz it just got icky that im sitting here crying and missing him while he is out with other girls. Im not moving on to someone else yet tho cuz i still need time to heal, but now i will not take him back since i know how little i ment to him
it’s okay to feel a mix of guilt and relief. letting go and blocking him sounds like exactly what you need right now
i got played and i ended up ghosting my ex completely too. feels weird at first but also kinda freeing.