I'm having a bad time with my dreams because he always appear but when he does he never does nothing for me, never helps me on my dream. Just hurt me....
Maybe this is another wake up call, we have been days doing no contact
Last updated on:2026-01-20T22:57:02+05:30
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when you wake up from those dreams, what hurts more. seeing him again, or realizing even in your dreams he still can’t show up for you the way you needed
when that started happening to me, i reminded myself that dreams aren’t messages. she my nervous system processing what i didn’t get. it didn’t mean i should reach out. it just meant i was still healing
i went through the same thing during no contact. he showed up in my dreams but always cold, distant, or hurting me again. it felt like my brain replaying the trauma bond even when i was awake and trying to be strong
you just have to let it go