we stopped contact once again and promised we would reach out in 5 months as thats how long our previous was and man. i started going back to the gym again, i started reading and i even might start journaling my own feelings. what really made mehace closure was the fact he was still in love with me but it just isn’t our time as we still need to grow as individuals and i hate that its good terms it hurts even more. i love him with all my heart. he is someone i truly can’t forget even has hard as i try i never ever can truly forget him as much as i tried from the 5 months i still thought about him.
Last updated on:2026-03-17T23:56:40+05:30
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do you feel like this 5 month thing is giving you closure, or is it keeping a small hope alive that makes it harder to fully let go?
both, we both are wanting to be together but right now it isn’t the best in our timing so maybe in 5 months we’ll both be ready or we aren’t 🤷🏽♀️
i get why the good terms hurt more. for me, i had to stop holding onto the “maybe later” idea, even if it felt real. o
i had a “right person wrong time” too and it messed me up more than any toxic breakup. knowing they still loved me but we still had to walk away… that part really HURT. i kept thinking about him for months just like you.
literally haven’t stopped thinking abt him
you're doing what is necessary for you and your mental health, there is absolutely no shame in that. keep your head up, keep moving forward, and know you're not alone friend 🧡 we all need a lottle extra support on this app and kindness goes such a long way when we're hurting so deeply. lean on this community 🧡