why would someone end a 3 year relationship over texts, and refuse to meet even in person like at all?
and also the last time we met he reassured me that everything is fine between us and even kissed my hands
Last updated on:2026-03-19T09:31:20+05:30
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He didn't want to do in person because maybe he knew it would upset you. Do you maybe have an anxious attachment style out of curiosity?
my husband had an affair with my daughters best friends mom. His coworker, after I found out about the affair he begs to be a family again saying all they did was talk. He ignored her for 2 weeks and she got so mad that she called me and told me about the whole affair, he bought her a 4500 ring 😳 than tells me he wants our family to meet his other daughter that he had 10 years ago 😧 i packed up me and kids and left. he sent me numerous suicide notes, blocked him on everything. so hard trying to start over with my kids 💔 day 11 since we packed up and left.
I'm so sorry. That's so painful and a horrible thing to do. Rejection is protection. I'm going through the end of an almost 3-year relationship now, so I at least understand the pain. We will get through this together. I'm sending you love and a prayer. Please do me a big favour and give yourself a big hug for me. The fact that you're asking this question and feel so confused proves that you have higher standards for how to behave in a relationship, and you deserve to be shown the same love and kindness. God loves you. ❤️
my husband texted me he hadnt been in love with me for over a year, then after begging him to call, he told me on the phone the next step was divorce. the next time I came home, all of his stuff was gone. we have been together going on 14 years, married for almost 10. and the last time I saw him, he hugged me and told me he loved me. I wish I could answer these questions for the both of us, friend. its so hurtful, overwhelming, and even cruel, disrespectful, manipulative, and betraying. we are all on this app because we are hurting. its okay to lean on each other for support, so lean on girl. keep your head up, keep moving forward, and know youre not alone friend 🧡
you're very strong, that must have been really hard to even comprehend. i hope you find happines on your future moving forward.
@HexiFly769 thank you so very much and to you as well ❤️
after that last time you met and he reassured you, did anything feel off at all or was it completely normal?
the texting breakup says more about him than you. when i went through something similar, i had to accept that some people just don’t have the guts to face it in person, and that gave me a bit of closure.
this would mess with my head so bad. i had someone reassure me everything was okay right before ending things too, and that switch up made me question everything for months. it’s such a confusing kind of hurt
He alone can have the explanation, and frankly, these days some people's behavior is inexplicable.