thank you all for your advices! I've been writing for the past 5 days non stop about how I've been feeling and why I don't deserve an immature person as the one I had. I am 100% over it, after my dream I mentioned last post and after I got my period I felt like something woke up with me! I am a 23 year old free woman ready to grow and he is a 30 year old man who all he did after the breakup is change his pfps to anime pics and act nonchalant about it!
thank you so much for the help, I realised 🫂
for all the people out there, women or men, if the person you thought you were gonna marry someday stops texting you and acts like nothing DONT wait for them to comeback! start a notebook with your pain and write everyday after reading everything you wrote before everyone!
you will understand your value! 💪🏻💕
Last updated on:2026-01-21T21:23:26+05:30
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do you feel more proud right now or more relieved. like proud of who you’re becoming, or relieved you don’t have to carry his immaturity anymore
I am happy. I really was blindfolded, it was my first time being this in love, and I now realize all the aggressive things I tolerated from him. I’m happy and proud of how much this situation made me grow as a woman. I’m ready to come back to being my real self again, without pain 🥰💪🏻💕
i love how you clocked the mismatch without sugarcoating it.
it took me some days but after focusing on it for that long I was able to realise it! 💕
this made me smile because i remember that exact switch. journaling every raw thought until one day i reread it all and went… wait, why was i begging someone so emotionally stunted. my ex was older too and still acted like a teenager online. SAME
I'm so happy that even if we had similar experiences we both could get over it! 💪🏻💕
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