i have this urge to text him and ask him about why he did all this? why did he throw everything away? when i was trying my best to keep it all together, why? instead of fixing, why did he run away? and if he wanted to end everything why did he even promise to marry me?đ
why would he keep talking about marriage almost everyday?
i miss him alot but i know going back would only hurt me, atleast i didn't chase him, i have my dignity intact and i am not willing to lose it, i just miss him all the time
Last updated on:2026-03-14T04:28:03+05:30
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when he talked about marriage all the time, did it feel genuine in the moment or did a part of you ever feel like he was saying what you wanted to hear?
OMG⌠I am in the same position. I feel pain all over my body.... I donât know how to move on. I canât stay anywhere.... he was my home. I canât understand how it was so easy for him to forget all those plans and dreams.... For me, they were a purpose to live.... Iâm so sad.
i feel the urge youâre talking about. i almost sent that âwhy did you do thisâ text a hundred times.
those urges will go away with time. the mind is still reeling from the hurt he caused, but once its settled down a bit, you will see reaching out again will be more harmful to you after abandonment like that. trust me. keep your head up, keep moving forward, and know you're not alone friend đ§Ą
My ex was always talking about our future too, and then just discarded me anyway. I made the mistake of asking him why and that I loved him, and was met with complete silence. He doesn't care about you, he was just future faking, like all avoidants do. I'm so sorry you went through this, but you deserve better.
my ex used to talk about marriage all the time too, like it was our future set in stone, then he just walked away. that kind of whiplash leaves so many WHYs in your head. i remember missing him like crazy and still refusing to chase. that takes strength.
if i stay intact and hold my pride for awhile, there is still a 2% chance that he'll come back, because silence is power somewhere but i know i am doing it strategically but even if he doesn't miss me even after i have given him enough space to miss me, he better stay where he is, and i must move on, i am hopeful someday i will find a man who won't make empty promises and follow through his words.