So I had told my bf I love him all excited like the energy was felt but he just said "i love you too babe" and i felt like the energy wasn't matched and I told him and he said he'll make it up to me. Next morning he was going home after work and he tried talking about it but because I had gone to bed upset I didn't feel like saying much. He asked what's on my mind and I told him. Remember he said he'll make it up to me when he gets home right? Well he responded with "ohh yeah" like he just remembered.Said "I'm sorry you felt that way" because he was busy and before we had a very heated argument where I told him saying "I'm sorry you felt that way" wasn't genuine and rather "I'm sorry I made you feel that way" was genuine so I highlighted the message. He then went on to say "if my apology isn't good enough for you then it's not good enough for you, I'm going to bed" and then later on went off saying i give him the okay to be busy at work since it will be a busy job when I was just understanding enough and then started saying just because that one didn't had much energy I was forgetting all the ones that had energy. I told him i was just letting him know how I felt and how he can apologized and realizing he was coming off as manipulative even when he might not be trying to me I told him take care to which he said he's not about to "break his back for a girl who couldn't give a damn about him" and then said I was ending the relationship. Mind you all I said was "take care" and then I told him that was literally all I said and he's like "right like take care doesn't mean you're ending the relationship"
Now mind you I've been supportive a bunch of times and he's supposedly working to get me stuff for my birthday and to come visit me in my country and I've been supportive a lot but for him to say he's not breaking his back for a girl when I'm his girlfriend was painful. We didn't talk for the day. He didn't message and I didn't either.
6-8pm
he kept messaging saying he's trying to reconcile but I wanted the relationship to end so that's why I'm not forgiving him
smh
he still didn't understand how hurtful saying "some girl" as a reference to his partner is
Last updated on:2026-03-20T15:04:03+05:30
Comments (4)
you feel like he actually heard you at any point, or did it always turn into you having to defend yourself
hi i had an ex who’d flip things like that too, one minute i’m sharing how i feel and the next i’m the problem. that “i’m not breaking my back for some girl” line would’ve cut me DEEP
trust me it felt like a stab and the knife got turned inside of me
just love yourself