Why can't he understand me?
In all of our arguments whenever the topic of him having to do something (like if we had argued about him not checking up or making me his last priority) he would always say "sometimes I don't underst
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Why did he curse me for being depressed?
I messaged my bf saying how depressed I was and how he has been treating me and he got mad saying that I should've give him a break cause he had exams and he stated that he was gonna take a pill and t
Am i just a convenience? my struggles with feeling unvalued in my relationship
I’m posting this because I genuinely need outside perspectives on my relationship, because I feel like I’ve become so emotionally drained that I don’t even know if I’m seeing things clearly an
Why am i not getting pictures from my partner?
Hi everyone! So I'm a bit confused on what I should do. So basically I'm not the type to take pics unless I look cute so eventually when I do take pics they're saved in my phone. My now partner in the
Should i leave him after all the mixed signals?
So I started dating this guy who was studying to be a doctor. We've kicked it off quite early. Our first time being intimate he made me feel like a relationship wasn't what he wanted saying he couldn'
Why does he need a dna test for our kids?
My boyfriend and I were talking about future plans. The topic of kids came up and he told me he would need to do a dna test on all his children before he can accept they're all his. I felt terrible be
Why doesn't he care? a heartbroken account
He asked me to go to the bar with him. I told him I'm sick which is why I couldn't go to work. He said OK and proceed to go bar hopping without asking what was wrong etc. Just...sad
Was i wrong to leave him in the car?
So my bf of 5 days took me to a bar that he likes, proceeds to get super drunk and fell asleep in his car leaving me to be in the company of his friend and his friend's girl. It was super embarrassing
Why did he call me wicked for not doing his laundry?
Should a woman do her boyfriend of 5 days laundry? I mean he didn't asked but just called me wicked for not doing it so I'm curious
Why do i feel detached after getting intimate?
Hey. So I've met a guy after getting over my ex and the breakup. We met after he had offered me a ride to work when I was stranded in the rain. In the car we didn't talk but when I got to work he gave
Why is he still reaching out after the breakup?
Two days now he has been trying to message me. Yesterday I got a message through my mail that read "I left my last thought on WhatsApp" but little did he know I blocked him. I didn't respond to that m
Why i had to choose my peace over his
He still decides to do things we did in the past like have movie dates virtually, fall asleep otp etc but my feelings aren't there, well definitely not the romantic one. For whatever reason when I bri
Why am i stuck in this breakup mess?
Hey everyone! I'm in a difficult situation right now. If you have been following my several post but most importantly my recent one then you'll see that I'm going through a breakup with a guy who clea
Why do i feel pregnant even with negative tests?
So for the past few months I've been having pregnancy symptoms. Pregnancy test have been negative but somehow the symptoms are there. I told him after just two days or three of nc about it and wrote a
Why i had to restart no contact after his mixed signals
So I had to restart my no contact because he had messaged me a bunch of paragraphs that he missed me. I reciprocated the same feeling (worst decision) and I thought it meant he wanted to talk but I no
What would you do if your partner accused you of cheating?
If your partner accused you of cheating constantly because you have male friends, call you insecure, say their friends come before you, constantly say that they didn't hurt you and that you hurt yours
Why letting go of him was the best decision i made
I used to sit and wonder how somebody could watch me cry, explain my pain over and over, and still somehow make me feel like I was the problem. Every argument turned into him running to his friends in
Why did my boyfriend call me 'some girl'?
So I had told my bf I love him all excited like the energy was felt but he just said "i love you too babe" and i felt like the energy wasn't matched and I told him and he said he'll make it up to me.
i feel trapped
So when I was in a relationship with this guy I made a prank. it was a ldr so at first I thought the prank would be funny since we both trusted each other and he knows I'm not a cheater. apparently to
So before I graduated to be in the health field I met a guy during rotation
So before I graduated to be in the health field I met a guy during rotation. We were both students and worked at the hospital. When he saw me he'd borrow my stuff to do examination. At first I just th
okay so I've been in no contact and I'm not gettin
okay so I've been in no contact and I'm not getting any urges to text my ex or anyone at all but now I wanna be in a relationship ughhhh I hate this
Whenever I'd see a car similar to my abuser's car I'd get scared and my heart would start racing
Whenever I'd see a car similar to my abuser's car I'd get scared and my heart would start racing. When I'd get dropped off I'd 100% have to look at my surroundings to make sure he's not there and then
my blood pressure has been low ever since that incident happened
my blood pressure has been low ever since that incident happened. I really wish I didn't go through this
Been abused and assaulted by a guy friend recently and although the matter was settled I'd still have dream about him on top of me choking me and they'd feel so real that I'd get up coughing or feel his weight on me
Been abused and assaulted by a guy friend recently and although the matter was settled I'd still have dream about him on top of me choking me and they'd feel so real that I'd get up coughing or feel h
Last night he sent another reel similar to what he first sent and this time I was so mad that I decided to peak my mind
Last night he sent another reel similar to what he first sent and this time I was so mad that I decided to peak my mind. We had a heated argument like never before, HEATED and I still can't believe th
He(ex) sent an Instagram reel with the caption "how women my age sound after I've had experiences with older women" 🤨 I'm 3 years younger than him like wth?
He(ex) sent an Instagram reel with the caption "how women my age sound after I've had experiences with older women" 🤨 I'm 3 years younger than him like wth?? What that gotta do with me? I'm so con
Whenever I don't message he'd(ex)usually reach out and recently his ex friend was trying to get with me and I kept saying "no" that I was uncomfortable and the guy kept pushing it so then the guy messaged my ex and told him that I messaged(making it look l
Whenever I don't message he'd(ex)usually reach out and recently his ex friend was trying to get with me and I kept saying "no" that I was uncomfortable and the guy kept pushing it so then the guy mess
Decided to block him after realizing I was doing more harm than good by keeping him unblocked
Decided to block him after realizing I was doing more harm than good by keeping him unblocked. New start on this long journey of healing. Any advices you guys have, feel free to comment ☺️
Trying to understand something with no contact
Trying to understand something with no contact. Do I block my ex in order to be successful with it or keep him unblocked but just avoid responding?
I was posting poems because I love them and he messaged
I was posting poems because I love them and he messaged. I thought it would've been like an apology or something but nope. it was to say that I still had a lot more to tell him because I was "posting