He still decides to do things we did in the past like have movie dates virtually, fall asleep otp etc but my feelings aren't there, well definitely not the romantic one. For whatever reason when I bring up something I don't like to him he gets all defensive and say things like his "peace is very important rn" and that he's "mentally where he wanna be" and sadly I've had enough. I left him on read. If me bringing up an issue and then teaching you the better approach and instead you chose to only focus on your peace then us talking would be useless. I'm done letting him make me feel like my peace and feelings aren't important!!!
Last updated on:2026-06-08T20:43:12+05:30
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do you think he actually wants to work through issues with you, or does he just want to keep the parts of the connection that feel good for him?
keep your head up, keep moving forward, and know you're not alone friend ❤️
if someone's "peace" only matters when you bring up something that hurts you, i'd stop explaining myself so much. i got exhausted trying to teach someone how to care when he was busy defending himselves.
my ex still wanted all the comfort of a relationship after the feelings were gone, the calls, the routines, the emotional support. after a while i realized i was carrying the weight of both our peace while mine kept getting ignored.