So I had to restart my no contact because he had messaged me a bunch of paragraphs that he missed me. I reciprocated the same feeling (worst decision) and I thought it meant he wanted to talk but I noticed he'd push me away when I wanna talk e.g I told him I got home from work and his response was to "get as much sleep" so when I got up I told him and he said he's "about to do things to heal himself so I should enjoy the rest of the no contact" and we haven't messaged back because I got mad and blocked him all over. Why did I expect him to be ready?
Last updated on:2026-05-28T14:24:12+05:30
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my ex would pour his heart out at 2am then act emotionally unavailable the second i leaned back in
i don’t think you were wrong for hoping. when someone sends paragraphs saying they miss you, of course your heart is gonna believe there’s something real behind it.
he actually wanted connection again, or did he just want comfort and reassurance that you were still there for him?
He sounds confused or maybe just playing games.
you are still attatched to your old ways, you wait for a message instead of expecting none and beeing happy with it, stop allowing him to get close, and start working on yourself instead of trying to rebuild something that is past it s time, he keeps you as an option, and treats you like one, so stop beeing one...
keep your head up, keep moving forward, and know you're not alone friend ❤️