Why breaking contact is so hard but necessary

Don't break contact the promise to change and make things work never works out protect your peace...
its the hardest thing I have had to do but I believe it will be worth it

Last updated on:2026-09-20T19:27:30+05:30

Comments (9)

faintedPie
faintedPie 1 hr ago

what was the final straw that made you realize her promises were empty and pushed you to hold no contact this time?

DreamAndChill509

she moved in three days after I left
they got married 3 weeks later

DreamAndChill509

some people can not him tho

its been 5 times now and it stays the same

necrosis
necrosis 4 hrs ago

i stayed stuck in that loop for two whole years taking my ex back every single time he swore he would do better, and it broke my spirit way worse than the actual split ever did. holding that line is brutal, but you are so right, protecting your peace is worth every ounce of effort.

DreamAndChill509

it is true going back to empty promises do no good peace is something you need to choose for yourself....

DreamAndChill509

promise that they will change that they will try work on it with you

HealingMe26
HealingMe26 6 hrs ago

You don't believe people can change and make things work?

DreamAndChill509

@HealingMe26 people can change but when it happens more then one i mean do you really want to change
I am not saying in general I am talking about my experience and honestly going back to him is not an option....
he will not change atleast not for me

HealingMe26
HealingMe26 8 hrs ago

What do you mean by "promise to change and make things work never works"?