Why i finally went out without texting him

with my friends and didn’t text him or even thought about it! Even if it’s a small step, i’m still proud. Anyway i woke up today and found out that he texted me, because he saw my snap, and said “hahaha, nice” (probably very ironically). Like what? Last time I checked, i was single, leave me be if you don’t want me 😀

Last updated on:2026-09-20T17:17:08+05:30

Comments (8)

Effect4
Effect4 3 hrs ago

that first night where you realize you actually had fun without checking your phone or thinking about your ex feels HUGE. then one stupid little message from them can mess with that peace again, ugh.

typuga
typuga 5 hrs ago

Well done!!! Those small wins are actually rather huge! Keep them coming ❤️

HealingMe26
HealingMe26 5 hrs ago

I'm proud of you! I'm glad you didn't think about him!
Did he break up with you?

ZappyWave103
ZappyWave103 5 hrs ago

thank youu <3 yeah he broke up with me but i knew that it wasn’t working, so it was probably for the best, still miss him tho :/

HealingMe26
HealingMe26 5 hrs ago

@ZappyWave103 how long were you together?

ZappyWave103
ZappyWave103 3 hrs ago

@HealingMe26 almost a year, we broke up a few days before our anniversary

jewel66
jewel66 6 hrs ago

Honestly, that is still a win! You didn’t text him, you didn’t think about texting him, and you were actually enjoying yourself. That’s progress, even if he randomly popped up afterward 😂. And honestly, if he doesn’t want to be with you, he can’t expect to keep having access to you or commenting on your life. Keep focusing on yourself and let him wonder. You’re doing better than you think.

ZappyWave103
ZappyWave103 5 hrs ago

thank you!🤍