I don’t know what to say or how or where to start. but today is the last day we communicated.. Me and my boyfriend broke up 4 days ago… we dated for a little bit over a year. but before that he was my guy bestfriend for 3 years.. I would tell him every little thing, every good or bad things that happened. One day I just saw myself slowly falling for him and he did too. So we tried.. and we knew that we was putting our friendship at risk but it was something that we were willing to risk just to be with one another.. but 4 days ago out of nowhere he just broke up with me and tbh I was a bit furious because it was so out of the blue like 20mins ago we was just so happy and i really didn’t see it happening. He said we was at different stages of our lives and he was unsure or worried about the uncertainty of the future and just didn’t want to waste our time if we weren’t going to work out anyway… Now I’m here left hanging without nobody to catch me. And I don’t have my bestfriend to talk too.
Last updated on:2026-09-20T18:04:31+05:30
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I could say the same. I wish I had him but we tried the “friends” only thing after and it never worked. once you go couple direction it’s hard to go back
losing your boyfriend and your best friend in one single conversation is a different kind of pain, i felt that whole loss in my soul. i dated my guy best friend of four years and when he pulled the exact same "we're at different stages" line out of nowhere, i felt completely stranded because the one person who usually helped me process hard things was the one who caused it. sending you the biggest hug tonight, it is so unfair.
I'm sorry you'regoing through this. Just give him space. If it's meant to be you'll find a way to be friends again but it'll take some time.
thank you! 🥺