Whenever I don't message he'd(ex)usually reach out and recently his ex friend was trying to get with me and I kept saying "no" that I was uncomfortable and the guy kept pushing it so then the guy messaged my ex and told him that I messaged(making it look like I was desperate or some shit) and I saw the chats and decided to unblock to make it known to him that his friend wanna lie because I rejected him and he got mad and asked why I give a fuck and why I responded and I explained I was telling his friend I wasn't interested and he wasn't listening so then he(my ex) started getting mad and cursing and I cursed back and we had an argument where he said that he's "completely done with me forever and he's not coming back" buttttt the next day he messaged asking if the guy was still bothering me and I was shocked cause you told me you were done. I told him he blocked me when he found out I told him(ex) the truth and he said to keep it that way. I thought he was done but he kept checking up every single day. I never messaged first but I'm confused as to why he's still checking up. I mean he doesn't have feelings for me so yeah
Last updated on:2025-07-10T05:06:02+05:30
Comments (7)
it sounds like he’s still invested in some way. But don’t let his confusion mess with your peace of mind.
he’s acting like he’s done but clearly isn’t. Maybe he’s just trying to keep control of the situation.
He says one thing but does another. Maybe it’s time to set some boundaries for your own peace.
Girl he’s giving mixed signals. If he’s done why is he still checking up? Sounds like he’s not over it.
Unfortunately I'm over it🤣
that’s so messy. Honestly it sounds like he’s trying to keep tabs o you even though he says he’s done.
Wow that’s a lot to deal with. Sounds like he’s confused about what he wants. Just focus on what’s best for you