i recently found out that while we were in that messy working things out phase he was physical with two other people and after we officially broke up he also had online relationships with other women. we’ve been together for 5 years and even now i’m still uncovering things like him talking to someone at work and never telling me.
we’re trying to talk things through but i can’t shake what i’ve learned. it’s not just what he did it’s the lying the hiding and how he presented himself like someone else while living a whole separate life. the part about the 20 year old especially still sits heavy with me even though he says it didn’t last and he ended it.
i had to keep pushing for the truth and i still don’t even know if i have all of it. i’ll admit i wasn’t perfect either and i owned my mistakes when they came out but this feels different. sometimes it even feels like he did certain things to hurt me back.
now i feel lost because i don’t even recognize him anymore but part of me still wants to try. i just don’t know how to move forward or let go of everything i’ve found out.
Last updated on:2026-04-07T21:20:14+05:30
Comments (4)
This guy is a serial cheater. Why would you want to work things out. You're worth way more than that. Drop him, block him, and concentrate on bettering yourself for a REAL man to come into your future.
keep your head up, keep moving forward, and know you're not alone friend ❤️
hey do you feel like he’s actually being fully honest now, or does it still feel like there’s more you haven’t seen yet?
hi i went through something similar where i kept uncovering more and more and it made me question EVERYTHING i thought i knew about him. that feeling of “who even are you” really messes with your head