me and my ex broke up because i guess he had enough of my anger and im someone who would get angry and say things i dont mean later i found out i was bipolar and he doesn’t know that but the reason i was so mad this one day was because he told me him and his ex had eye contact but not in a way that he misses her js as a trauma response and memories of how he broke his heart by cheating i was so mad i didnt buy it i said rude rude things i broke up with him asked him to forgive me he said his tired of my toxic behaviour and we broke up and then long story short he moved on to his ex……i cant help but still miss him alot sometimes cause he deserves better than both of us but why would u go back to someone who cheated i would have never done that
i need advise idk
Last updated on:2026-04-20T10:23:03+05:30
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you’re missing him, or missing the version of you that you were when things felt okay between you two?
i had to stop trying to understand their choices, like why they went back to someone who hurt them, and focus on my own patterns instead. getting real about my anger and working on it was the only thing that helped me not repeat it
i’ve blown up on someone i loved and said things i couldn’t take back, then watched them walk away for good… that regret sits heavy, especially when you know you didn’t mean it
gosh thats horrible. but honestly he probsbly just misses what they had and checked out. sometimes even tho u want to move on what u had beofre felt special. A strong connection. And so u fall back into it. Or he wanted to feel validated and not lost. as soon as his ex cheated on him he probsbly felt lost and discarded. he might have wanted to know if she would choose him again. my best advise if u really want him is wait. or reach out with a hi every once in awhile. show interest but also giving space.