i am very sad to see my nc number go back to zero, but i couldn’t do it. my sister brought it to my attention today that he had changed his display name on social media to a name that was very obviously matching with someone named “isa.” this brought up all kinds of questions and made me wonder if he had cheated on me with this “isa.” we have only been broken up for 5 days. i needed to know for my sanity and texted him. i am surprised to say that the text was really less out of hurt from him moving on and more out of needing to know the truth so i could heal. turns out “isa” is his guy friend. his whole group is matching names, he is partnered up with isaac. although i am disappointed in myself for not being stronger, it has only been 5 days and i am still truly impressed with myself and the progress i have made in these days. i forgive myself for reaching out to him and i choose believe that this brought me the closure and confirmation that i needed to not reach out again.
Last updated on:2026-04-27T02:05:05+05:30
Comments (6)
your brain just needed the truth to stop spiraling.
do you feel a bit more settled now that you know the truth, or did reaching out stir things up again for you?
broke no contact over something that turned out to be nothing and felt so annoyed at myself after. but honestly 5 days is SO early, i was a mess then too, you’re doing better than you think
That’s completely normal! Don’t be mad at yourself! Be so proud of yourself still x
i know its hard but he’s just an immature little boy. move on girl, you got a whole life ahead of you and it’s not worth it stressing about a boy. keep moving on, you got this!
everything will be alright. stay strong and give it another try 😊