we lost our way of communicating. we were long distance and we were supposed to travel together. he is going for longer. he says he wants to try when we he gets back and he wants more space. but the timing wasn’t right and we couldn’t work it out now not being able to show up in the same region. when he’s back we will be as I have moved back. he told me today he is keen to try again but for now only talk a couple times a week. I’m holding on hope.
Last updated on:2026-05-18T08:02:59+05:30
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i think it’s okay to hold onto hope a little, but i had to stop building my whole emotional world around “when they come back.”
how did you do that?
i’ve been in that weird in-between where you’re technically apart but still holding onto future plans together. honestly the hope can keep you going and wreck you at the same time. the “talk a couple times a week” part would’ve had me overthinking EVERYTHING
yeah, I have decided I won’t be the one to reach out to him again. I’m exhausted and I feel like I’m embarrassing myself
do you feel calmer after this conversation with him, or more anxious now that things are kind of undefined?
I think it’s hard because it feels like it’s affecting me more than it is him. I have given him so many chances to say he doesn’t want to try when he’s back. he said he wouldn’t do that to me but right now wants us to live our own lives
just listen to ur heart.if u feel he has changed and the relationship is not the way u want , then move on.
keep your head up, keep moving forward, and know you're not alone friend ❤️