i tought i was 10000% over him i rly did but today my friend talked ab him then are friebds and snep me a pic of him and sent a pic of me to him and i am jist thinking ab if he ever reached out will i just welcome him with open arms idk guys i wil cry this cant be happening again
Last updated on:2026-05-25T16:31:45+05:30
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i’d feel SO over him until one random mention or picture ruined my whole day and suddenly i’m back wondering if i’d take him back instantly. healing is so annoying like that.
y i learned being “over someone” isn’t always permanent every single day. sometimes one trigger brings all the feelings back for a minute, but that doesn’t erase all the progress you already made.
do you miss HIM right now or do you miss the comfort of being wanted by him again? because those hit very differently once you sit with it.
both i miss being wantwd by him and i miss talking to him and everything ab him
in the nicest way possible, you need better friends. or you need to tell them that sharing about him, being sent or shown photos of him, literally ANYTHING, is completely uprooting your healing process. i’m so sorry, it makes sense that it made you feel worse because it reactivates the neural pathways that you are working so hard every day to rewire. hang in there
ty, i been thinking ab that bc that friend has been with be trough everything and knows everyhing he has done to me but she is still good with him but when she fights with someone then she thinks i also have to be on bad terms with that person and i jist dont understand her
from your other posts it seemed you were doing so well. what happened that changed things?
idk i was sooo happy i moved on istarted liking one othee guy than our mutal firend started talking to me ab him what he said and othar thing and what broke me was when she sent me a pic of him and all the memoris came back and like 1hour ago shw sent me a video if him and he looks the same,the same boy i feel in love with and she even said hi to him from me. But i overthink what if rhey were talking bad ab me or if he is just making fun of me and will add me and use me again