It feels so strange how fast the days are passing when our last call still feels like it happened yesterday. Do I miss him? Yes. Do I want to talk to him? Also yes But then I remember he told my best friend that I was “too much” and too depressed to be his responsibility!
What hurts is how confusing that feels because he used to be the one who constantly checked on me and asked if I was okay, yet somehow he still ended up seeing me as something heavy to carry. I think what I truly miss is the version of him who loved me, understood me differently and saw me as more than just a burden.
Last updated on:2026-05-25T09:18:12+05:30
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my ex used to check on me constantly too, then later acted like my feelings were this exhausting thing he had to manage
hearing someone call you “too much” after they once made you feel safe is the kind of thing that sticks.
do you think you miss HIM right now, or do you miss the comfort of the version of him that made you feel chosen and emotionally safe?
Are you depressed? Do you know the signs? Have you seen a therapist? Most people don't have the stamina to handle people who constantly use up their energy. t
They aren't professionals. you can like or even love someone who's depressed but not on a continuous diet of it. I know i have depression and I take medication for it. it's not a cure all but It helps. People who have never suffered with it have no idea the torment you deal with and when someone comes into your life but doesn't stay the depression is doubled. I hope this helped. stay in touch. A friend.
Actually, I’ve had Bell’s palsy for 10 years now and I was diagnosed with depression for over 8 years because of that and many other things in my life. But I don’t take any medication and I never even told him I had depression. I think he only said that because he found out I go to therapy...
I’ve never wanted to put pressure on anyone because of my mental health. I already know people have enough on their shoulders and I never wanted to hand them my weight too. That mindset honestly caused me even more mental struggles over the years.
I completely understand what you're going through. keep your head up, keep moving forward, and know you're not alone friend ❤️ we can be depressed together ❤️
Aww Thank you so much ❤️ I’m trying my best to move forward, even if some days are harder than others!
He is now putting all the blame of the failed relationship on u..Do not check on what he is saying to others.Keep on head high and keep moving on.
You’re right… checking what he says only hurts more. I really need to focus on healing myself now and I'm realllly trying
everything need time, I know how you feel. let feel the pain, because it was soneone you love and step by step try to again wake up, when you accept that the person is never coming back its just painful but since this moment you start to heal ..
I think accepting everything is the hardest part but I hope one day it hurts less
You arent a burden. Take some time for yourself. work on yourself. Your mental health, your physical health. Hang out with some friends, get new ones. Get new hobbies or start playing around with old ones. If you distract your mind you wont be as distraught.
Thank you ❤️ I’m trying to take care of myself more and slowly find myself again hope it will get better soon