Just don't act out of impulse. Wait for a moment, breath, ask yourself if this is really worth it? He texts you, you answer and then he ghosts you. Will you feel better after? Would it be worth it? It depends on what he texts you, but always be okay with him reacting differently than you may anticipate
i'd leave it for a bit before answering, especially if my heart is racing. i found that waiting helped me hear what i actually wanted instead of reacting to the notification.
he told me that he didn’t love me and he just had a good time with me made him think he truly love me but he realized that he didn’t so he just wanted us to still be as a friends but I couldn’t be just a friend
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Just don't act out of impulse. Wait for a moment, breath, ask yourself if this is really worth it? He texts you, you answer and then he ghosts you. Will you feel better after? Would it be worth it? It depends on what he texts you, but always be okay with him reacting differently than you may anticipate
i'd leave it for a bit before answering, especially if my heart is racing. i found that waiting helped me hear what i actually wanted instead of reacting to the notification.
if he does message you, what do you think you'd want from that conversation?
I want him to tell me why
one text from my ex used to send me right back into hoping and overthinking, so i learned to pause before replying.
don't worry,he won't
it depends, but if he really wants you back you might think of giving him a chance
he won't
@Tara dyk her story? cuz I thought he’ll never but he did multiple times..
@MissSwirl iam sure he won't he left her probably
he told me that he didn’t love me and he just had a good time with me made him think he truly love me but he realized that he didn’t so he just wanted us to still be as a friends but I couldn’t be just a friend
@MissSwirl the problem is if he tried he will try cuz he knows i was a good person but not cuz he truly love me and thats hurts me sm
@notme in this case please don’t wait for him cuz he won’t return he lost feelings, this can never be changed